Bluepill
Belief in mainstream dating ideas that personality and effort can improve outcomes.
Community Dictionary
Pill Lexicon
Shared vocabulary for memes, debates, and ranking lore. Terms are community-submitted and mod-reviewed.
Redpill
View that dating dynamics are uneven and social narratives hide harsh realities.
Blackpill
Fatalistic view that genetics and physical traits dominate romantic outcomes.
AWALT
Acronym for 'All Women Are Like That'; a generalized claim about female behavior.
Hypergamy
Claim that women prefer partners with higher status, looks, or resources.
80/20 Rule
Claim that most women pursue a small top tier of men in dating markets.
SMV
Sexual Market Value; an informal rating idea for perceived dating desirability.
The Wall
Claim that female desirability sharply declines after a certain age.
Chad
Archetype for highly attractive and socially successful men.
GigaChad
Exaggerated version of Chad used as an extreme ideal.
Stacy
Female counterpart to Chad in attractiveness hierarchy memes.
Becky
Label for an average woman in incel/manosphere discourse.
Normie
Someone seen as ordinary and outside niche forum ideology.
Betabux
Derogatory term for a man viewed mainly as a provider.
Simp
Insult for someone perceived as overly deferential in pursuit of attention.
Cuck
Insult used for men seen as weak, humiliated, or lacking status.
Truecel
Self-label for someone claiming total lack of romantic or sexual experience.
Volcel
Voluntarily celibate; celibacy by choice rather than circumstance.
KHHV
Acronym for kissless, hugless, handholdless virgin.
Mentalcel
Self-label attributing involuntary celibacy to mental health challenges.
Heightcel
Self-label attributing dating struggles mainly to short height.
Manlet
Derogatory term for short or small-framed men.
Gymcel
Self-label for someone using gym and fitness as a coping or improvement strategy.
Escortcel
Self-label for someone who has paid for sex but does not feel they have 'ascended'.
Ricecel
Racialized subtype label for East or Southeast Asian men in these communities.
Currycel
Racialized subtype label for South Asian men in these communities.
Blackcel
Racialized subtype label for Black men in incel discourse.
NEET
Not in Education, Employment, or Training; used in overlap with incel forums.
Looksmaxxing
Broad term for attempts to improve appearance to increase dating outcomes.
Gymmaxxing
Using exercise and physique development as the main self-improvement strategy.
Moneymaxx
Trying to improve perceived desirability through income or wealth signals.
Statusmaxx
Trying to increase social status or influence to improve dating outcomes.
Mogging
Outclassing someone in a trait (for example heightmog, skullmog).
PSL Rating
Numerical attractiveness rating system borrowed from lookism communities.
Halo Effect
Bias where attractive people are assumed to have better traits overall.
Bone Smash Theory
Pseudoscientific claim that repeated impact can reshape facial structure.
Sub-8 / Sub-9
Forum shorthand claiming men below certain appearance scores have near-zero chance.
LDAR
Lay Down And Rot; withdrawal posture expressing total resignation.
Suifuel
Content that intensifies hopelessness or suicidal ideation.
Ragefuel
Content designed to provoke anger and outrage.
Lifefuel
Content that temporarily restores motivation or emotional energy.
JFL
Acronym for 'Just F***ing Lol'; darkly sarcastic reaction marker.
It's Over
Catchphrase signaling fatalism about self-improvement or dating prospects.
Rope
Self-harm coded language; should trigger support resources and moderation.
Ascend
Forum slang for leaving inceldom after achieving desired relationship outcomes.
ER / Going ER
Violence-coded reference linked to real-world attacks; explicitly prohibited content.
Foid / Femoid
Dehumanizing slur for women; derogatory and moderation-sensitive.
Roastie
Derogatory misogynistic slur used to shame women.
Landwhale
Derogatory body-shaming slur directed at overweight women.
Dogpill
Extreme claim used in nihilistic threads; generally treated as fringe content.
Atomic Blackpill
Claim of final proof that dating outcomes are fully determined by looks.
Chadfishing
Using fake profiles of highly attractive men to test reactions in dating apps.
Catfishing
Using a fake identity online to mislead or run social experiments.
Doxx
Publishing private personal information without consent; forbidden behavior.